the day i officially dapat kakak

Assalamualaikum.

Peace Be Upon you..

Semalam, 22 Oktober 2011, selesai lah sudah majlis pernikahan abang aku dan wanita pilihan dia. Alhamdulillah syukur, everything went smoothly. Masjid baru dah dibina. Semoga Allah meredhai dan kurniakan kebahagian di dunia dan di akhirat.

Nak cerita la sikit-sikit ye. Hehe. Kalau rajin baca lah.

The night before, Jumaat malam, mak ayah aku buat kenduri kesyukuran. Untuk abang aku, sempena dah jadi Engineer MAS dan nak kahwin, untuk aku jugak, sempena dah dapat degree.

Masa after Isyak, aku turun ke majlis untuk bacaan Yasin. Aku pakai jubah hitam labuh yang membuatkan aku nampak kurus sampai semua makcik-makcik kata 'Nurul, u look good'. Haha. Then bila ayah aku bagi ucapan, 'Buat kenduri ni sempena anak-anak saya, blablablabla, anak saya yang second, yang study kat Bandung tu, dah lulus, blablabla', then ramai la makcik-makcik datang kat aku cakap tahniah lalu nak peluk cium aku. Aku rela je la. Tapi, tiba-tiba aku teringat, 'eh aku tak pakai perfume!! nanti orang nak cium tak wangi pulak'.. So I ran upstairs, to my room and sembur sikit minyak wangi Guilty Gucci aku.

Bila dah sudah, nak turun tangga, I saw my bro is trying on kopiah kat tangga. Then he saw me and said 'besar la kopiah ni, malas la pakai'. Then kami turun tangga sesama. On the way down, I said to my brother, 'Bang Mat, tahniah awal-awal from Nurul ye'. He said thank you. Then suddently I felt like crying and I asked him to give me a hug. Haha. Then we hugged for a while, I cry silently. Thingking that I'd lost my brother tomorrow. Bukan hilang abang, hilang kebiasaan yang selalu kami ada. Nanti dia dah ada keluarga, nothing will ever be the same.

Done hugging, kami turun sesama dan selesaikan majlis kenduri kesyukuran tu... That is the 'moment' of me and my brother. Before tidur, I told myself tomorrow, walaupun sayu, I have to be happy for my brother.

Esoknya, with *Im not sure berapa kereta* konvoi ke Klang, rumah kakak ipar aku. Majlis pernikahan pon start. My bro look handsome with baju melayu putih cream and my kakak ipar is soooo ayu with baju kurung moden *i think its baju kurung moden* same colour. Ustad tu bagi ceramah dulu sikit then my bro disuruh istighfar dan selawat dan mengucap. Then he shaked his father in law's hand then start la 'aku nikahkan kau blablabla', then my bro cakap 'aku terima nikah, blablabla'. Twice, sebab 1st time my bro said 'aku terima nikahnya'. Sepatutnya takde 'nya'. The second time, tok kadi kata SAH, saksi kata SAH SAH SAH SAH, doa. Alhamdulillah...~

Behind my brother was his good friends here kat Taman Ehsan. Behind his friends was my mom and dad. I saw my mom cried the whole time. And when my bro lafazkan nikah, I saw her tears coming down so teruk sampai dia tekup muka kat my dad's arm. And my dad said 'aishh dah la tuuuu'. Its so sayuuu. Haha!

The sad mommy and the cool-but-donno-what-he-feels-deep-down daddy.

Me and one and only brother.

Then done majlis pernikahan, We went to my uncle's house untuk tukar baju for majlis perkahwinan. Tema pengantin perempuan is golden tapi aku pakai baju pink. Bagussss sangat! Majlis perkahwinan macam biasa la. Takde istiadat tabur menabur. Only pelamin for my bro and his wife to sit and tangkap gambar. After 2jam, pihak laki semua minta diri untuk pulang. Tinggal la my bro kat sana with his wife and new family....

Myra and our cousin, Ayin, jadi flower girl yang comeyyy.

Itu lah ceritanya. Some of you might pelik why nak nangis-nangis, kahwin je pon. Haha. My brother is the first child in the family. Also the only boy in the family. So, mak aku macam seriau sikit kenang anak laki yang selalu dia harapkan dah kahwin and akan busy dengan keluarga baru, macam hilang tempat bergantung. Haha. Tapi takkan taknak bagi abang aku kahwin pulak kan? Sampai waktu sampai seru sampai jodoh kena la bagi kahwin and hope for the best. Im sure my bro will always be a good son and a loving husband. InsyaAllah, nanti akan jadi loving father pulak.

Thats the story of the day I dapat kakak ipar. It was a happy day altho tears always keluar. but its happy tears. Takpe. My sister in law is amazing you know. So, wa chill je.. Hihi. And my vow to my sister in law is, I will NOT jadi ipar yang cam siot. Yelah sebab kadang-kadang kita dengar cerita rumahtangga porak peranda sebab ipar. Haha. So dont worry Kak Mun. I will become a very good sister in law. Hehe.

CONGRATULATIONS,

Mohd Badri Riza Bin Bakri and Siti Munirah bt Che Haludin

Side story...... Aku buat tayar kereta Mers aku masuk pasir lembik!!! Hahaha.. Aku nak parking. I cant find any good place to park. I saw tanah kosong. Aku tengok pasir-pasir tu ada batu atas-atas dia, so I bet the sand is good and tak lembik. Sekali, tayar stuck dalam pasir tu. Damn!!!!!

So aku biar je la kereta kat situ. Went to the wedding ceremony dengan hati cuak ayah aku marah. I went to tell him, but ayah aku senyum je cakap takpe. He's in a good mood la tu, dapat menantu. And sebab, aku buat deal dgn dia. Oleh kerana aku dah bagi dia degree, dia tak boleh marah aku seminggu. Tu pasal agaknya dia tak marah!! Haha!!

Bila kami nak balik, ayah aku try reverse kereta, tak dapat. Orang-orang tolak pon tak bergerak kereta tu. Tiba-tiba datang sorang pakcik yang ada kereta 4 wheel drive. Dia kata dia boleh tolong tarik kereta from pasir tu. And after 2 kali try, kereta aku akhirnya keluar from pasir lembik tu. Alhamdulillah!!!! Aku lari pergi kat pakcik tu and cakap, 'Pakcik, terima kasih pakcik. Saya yang buat tu pakcik. Haha. Thanks ye pakcik, Allah je mampu balas'. Pakcik tu senyum je cakap welcome.

I DID THIS! hahaha!!

Ok dah. Itu je nak cerita. Bangun subuh pagi tadi, aku berazam, I may not dapat ganti tempat abang, but I will try to jadi as useful as my bro to my mom sampai my mom sayang benor nak lepaskan abang. Haha. Biar mak aku alihkan tempat bergantung dia kat aku pulak. Yelah, selama ni aku duk jauh sebab study jauh. Ni dah habis study, boleh la berbakti kat mak ayah.

Doakan kebahagiaan abang and kakak ipar aku ye.

p/s : kepada yang kenal aku and tahu rumah aku, jemput datang majlis perkahwinan sambut menantu kat belah laki ye. 30 Oktober.